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Crime Prevention Advice - Romance Fraud


Romance Fraud

 

Romance fraud is when a criminal uses a fake profile to form a relationship with you, then invents reasons for needing you to send money. 

Keep your guard up and always consider the possibility of a scam. Ask someone you trust for a second opinion. Your safety and well-being should always come first. 

If you’re unsure, always talk to a family or friend before sharing anything.

 

Spot the Signs

 

  • You’ve struck up a relationship with someone online and they declare their love for you quickly. 
  • Many fraudsters claim to be overseas. 
  • They make up excuses as to why they can’t video chat or meet in person.
  • When they ask for financial help, it’ll be for a time-critical emergency, and the reason will be something that pulls at the heartstrings. They may get defensive if you decline to help.
  • Their pictures are too perfect – they may have been stolen from an actor or model. 
  • They tell you to keep your relationship private and not to discuss anything with your friends and family.
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  • How To Protect Yourself

     

  • Stop - Take a moment to stop and think before parting with your money or information.
  • Challenge - Is this person really who they say they are? Could it be fake? It’s OK to reject, refuse or ignore any requests for your financial or personal details. Criminals will try to rush or panic you.
  • Protect - Contact your bank immediately if you think you’ve fallen for a scam. 
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    If you think you’ve been a victim of a scam, don’t feel ashamed or embarrassed - you are not alone.

     

    Contact Police on 101 if you have been a victim of a scam.

     

    Download the romance fraud e-booklet from the Crimestoppers website

     

    Romance fraud | Crimestoppers (crimestoppers-uk.org)


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    Ross Walker
    (Police Scotland, PC - Community police officer, J Div - West Lothian)

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